Borderline Personality Blog: Healing – Coping – Improving

Sometimes I feel as if parts of my personality are working against each other, which ultimately causes me significant stress and anger. The concept of opposite forces inside the same personality has never made sense to me: everyone else seems to be oriented one way or the other, but why am I constantly ping-ponging between personality extremes?

Today’s batch of self help gurus and arm chair psychologists always advocate “setting goals” as a way to improve one’s life. Although this is good advice in terms of organizing your ambitions, the process of achieving a goal – particularly one that is challenging – can sometimes consume you so much that you begin to […]

I didn’t post last week because I was in the air somewhere between Costa Rica and Florida. By the time I was on the ground in the USA, I was extremely tired and didn’t have time to post a blog. I met my father at the airport, who generously agreed to drive all the way to Florida from southern New England. We took care of some immediate errands, got dinner, and then went directly to our hotel.

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